The old age is a special period in life. It is silent, sluggish, and is full of memories. Most individuals believe that it is a sad or lonely period but it could as well be a time of peace and joy. I am a grandmother and I have experienced a good number of years and witnessed a lot of changes. Life has never been that easy, yet I have learned to enjoy even trivial things. In my younger days my days were extremely hectic. There were numerous responsibilities and concerns. I was never thinking about the future and I cared about others. Life is now different. I get more time to sit, contemplate and be at ease.
Finding Joy and Purpose
This change initially was unfamiliar. I was at a loss how to pass away so much silent time. However, gradually I started realizing that this time is a gift. I began to appreciate the basic things. I prefer sitting in the morning and having the fresh air. I look out the sunshine in my room. I hear the sound of things about me. Such trivial things soothe my heart. I am no longer in a hurry. I am a slow person and am grateful with every day. I also had pleasure in recalling my life. I reflect on the life I lived, and my hardships, and joyful experiences.
These memories can remind me that I have not been a wasted life. They provide me with strength and comfort. I do not feel without things. I am well endowed with experiences. The other aspect that gives me a reason to live is maintaining contact with other people. I like to communicate with my family and hear their life. Even trivial discussions make me alive. I am not as strong as I was but I could still love and care. This helps me feel essential and necessary. I also came to know how to accept myself. At the old age, the body is weak and everything is different.
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These changes were difficult to accept at the beginning. Now I know that this is normal in life. I am gentle and indulgent towards myself. I am not comparing myself with the former. I concentrate on the things that I can do. I do not always spend time with people, which is not a bad thing. I enjoy solitude as it allows me to think and know myself. I am relaxed and serene. I have also been able to realize that sometimes it is not the big things that make people happy. It is usually a by-product of mute and simple things.
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Old age is now a beautiful phase of life to me. It is the moment to relax, to be grateful, and to appreciate what we have. I am not as youthful as I used to be, but I possess wisdom and peace. I have been taught that one can be joyful and find a purpose even at an older age of life. To read simpler and more touching stories such as this, go to our site and read more. Keep in touch with us to get soft words, teachings in life and serene thoughts on old age.
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